Dear readers,
Please take this article in a lighter note.
Who among us can say a mate search is easy? No, it is not.
So, what options do we have, which abstraction do go after?
Well, there is basically the trinity available here for comparison.
For females, choices of men:
Brahma type - Extremely potent, a well-versed in his academics, has a great job, extremely innovative, has great contacts.
Strength : potency, creativity
Weakness : too concentrated on progeny, not so much a romantic type, sometimes lusty (for other women)
Vishnu type - Handsome, rich and very well mannered. Excellent speaker and articulate in almost all matters. Liked by all
Strength : Very caring
Weakness : Little indifferent with respect to continuous attention to partner because has many matters to look into.
Shiva type - Handsome, total out caste, has weird friends and circle. Knowledgeable and seemingly arrogant.
Strength : Cannot live without his love, extremely potent
Weakness : Totally engrossed in partner, his life is his love
For males, choices of females:
Saraswati : Intelligent, extremely talented, working woman and very independent.
Strength : Innovative
Weakness : Career centric
Lakshmi : Wealthy, capricious, moody, sober and very pretty
Strength : Lovely
Weakness : Looks conscious, figure conscious, may take time to get into progeny
Parvati : Sensual, well-to-do, home-maker and yet believes in equality in home between man and woman
Strength: Perfect Home-maker
Weakness : I could fine none :)
From ages when couples married, elders blessed them to be like "Shiva Parvati"!
In many parts of India, unmarried girls fast on Shiva-ratri to get a husband like Shiva.
In matters of marriage, Shiva-Parvati seems to be the best choice for a traditional family. However, the other types are also not too difficult to see around us.
Jai Shiva Shambhu!
~ Souvik
Please take this article in a lighter note.
Who among us can say a mate search is easy? No, it is not.
So, what options do we have, which abstraction do go after?
Well, there is basically the trinity available here for comparison.
For females, choices of men:
Brahma type - Extremely potent, a well-versed in his academics, has a great job, extremely innovative, has great contacts.
Strength : potency, creativity
Weakness : too concentrated on progeny, not so much a romantic type, sometimes lusty (for other women)
Vishnu type - Handsome, rich and very well mannered. Excellent speaker and articulate in almost all matters. Liked by all
Strength : Very caring
Weakness : Little indifferent with respect to continuous attention to partner because has many matters to look into.
Shiva type - Handsome, total out caste, has weird friends and circle. Knowledgeable and seemingly arrogant.
Strength : Cannot live without his love, extremely potent
Weakness : Totally engrossed in partner, his life is his love
For males, choices of females:
Saraswati : Intelligent, extremely talented, working woman and very independent.
Strength : Innovative
Weakness : Career centric
Lakshmi : Wealthy, capricious, moody, sober and very pretty
Strength : Lovely
Weakness : Looks conscious, figure conscious, may take time to get into progeny
Parvati : Sensual, well-to-do, home-maker and yet believes in equality in home between man and woman
Strength: Perfect Home-maker
Weakness : I could fine none :)
From ages when couples married, elders blessed them to be like "Shiva Parvati"!
In many parts of India, unmarried girls fast on Shiva-ratri to get a husband like Shiva.
In matters of marriage, Shiva-Parvati seems to be the best choice for a traditional family. However, the other types are also not too difficult to see around us.
Jai Shiva Shambhu!
~ Souvik
